Dear Abby, Ann Landers, Jeanne--My Boyfriend Doesn't Want Me to Get Breast Implants--What Do You Think?
My suggestion is, if you are dealing with cops--GET THEM! LOL! If you are dealing with normal men, I have found in my experience, and a ton of it, generally, all the guys, I dated, told me the same thing that, this man, told his girlfriend--NO!--not that I ever considered it! I even had guys tell me that, if I got one, which I never thought of, and they just mentioned, because of past experience with women, they had been with, who did get a boob job, and, again, remember, this was 20 years ago, and I am sure, that rather than hardened, silicon balls in your chest, that have to be crushed between your hands every once in a while, to soften them, the new, boobs, some made up of fatty tissue from other parts of a woman's body, much softer, more real and safer, not injecting foreign matters into your body, then, it all boils down to the reason, you are doing it.
As, the girl or young woman mentioned, she is not doing it to get attention, or to be stared at, but, to give her more confidence, to feel better about her body, and to fit in her clothes better. All legitimate reasons, to become a silicon Barbie . . . being sarcastic, and I am proud of the guy, loving you, just the way you are, that is the characteristic of a real man, loves your soul, not your boobs . . . I have never seen a boob job, or plastic surgery ever save or make a relationship, and it is a fool, to believe that it will. There may be momentary pleasure, increased pride in being who you are, or who you are with, but are you doing it for the acclaim or admiration of others, or for a man, to have your wife, looked at more by your buddies? Because, in my experience, I have found, that plastic surgery or implants, have changed the way a woman feels about herself, and she has enjoyed that feeling with more than her husband or her boyfriend. Be careful, what you wish for, because, now days, as I have heard, in 75% of the cases, it is the women who wants the divorce now days, and a boob job, can, sometimes give her the confidence she needs to can your sorry ass!
Detaching from the Real Person . . . Something Foreign, Not Them!
For some reason, I have found, that, for some odd reason, at least with the women, I have, somewhat, interacted with, other than ones, who really did, do it, for the right reasons, and there are, totally legitimate reasons for the enhancement . . . although, many a sexy actress, is flat chested, because, sexy is smart, sexy is beautiful, sexy is in some one's attitude, and sometimes it is in how you make your partner feel about himself that makes you sexy to him, and hopefully him alone. Many a man, marries for their buddies approval, rather than what makes them happy--men are visually stimulated, but do you want every guy stimulated--stiffer competition. It is said that a woman is a man's glory, but only if there is something to admire, besides, just a good body, or nice boobs, but, I have found that women, tend to disassociate with their boobs, as something separate and aside or disconnected with their bodies--seeing the boobs as somewhat different, purchased, added, not attached. By way of example, almost every woman, who got a boob job, wanted me to touch them, see them, feel them . . . like I give a rat's ass . . . a man might enjoy that job, but not me! LOL!
I even had one of my students, up at the University of Utah, in my family law class, come up to me after class, and whip up her shirt to show me her newly acquired boobs! I was shocked, there were still guys students, leaving class, and so you need to integrate them, into you, as part of you, as being necessary for your happiness, and something that, is really needed, and I have seen cases, where someone got in awesome shape, lost all their body fat, and that included their boobs! Being too fit, is almost not female . . . double the body fat, and a woman stops having a period, after she loses too many percentage points of body fat! I know, that many big breasted women, have gotten breast reductions, because, men, have literally come up to them and said, so how are the girls, and only looked at her breasts as he spoke to her . . . she got them reduced, and said for the first time in her life, she felt like a real person! She loved being flat!
Pychosybrinetics . . . The Psychological Factor
Back when I was first married, in 1974, there was a popular book out on plastic surgery, written by a surgeon, who said, that people will grow up with a nose, they don't like, or a weak chin, or boobs, for that matter, and they live, breath and die, to get something done about that part of them, that has bothered them from birth. But, often, when they do, get the changed, nose, chin, or boobs, they are still themselves, still have the same hang-ups, issues, challenges, and now they are looking in the mirror at a person they don't recognize, making it all even worse. So, you better not expect, that this new confident person is going to magically pop out of the hat, and appear a new happier being, or you will be sadly wrong and may lead you into depression. Studies on suicide have shown, that the highest chances of suicide are generally connected to someone getting that new boat, or house, dream car, or new body . . . but, those things, don't bring about happiness, and may lead to debt, expenses, and the newly acquired item or body part, may become a noose of debt around your neck. And remember, wherever you go, there you are!
The Placebo Effect
I did, however, see a huge, jump in confidence, in my government doubles, being endowed, anointed, or assigned, my education, law degree, experience, name, kids, etc. That is why, investing in yourself, is where to put your money, time, hopes and dreams. Real estate prices go up and down, stocks and bonds, up and down, gold and silver investments, up and down, but if you invest in education, adventure, talents, skills, your real estate only goes up, and that is where the real value comes from. Once, I was going to a college library and happened to get their hours early, not knowing exactly what time it opened, and some young Hispanic man, with a very pocked face, from acne, but very handsome, was sitting waiting for the library to open also, and he told me of his background and what college did for him. He had been a construction worker, and nothing wrong with that, other than the body is shot, by the time you are in your forties, so a back up plan is needed . . . but he and his wife, a hair stylist and nail girl, pedicurist, made great money, they lived in a nice house, he had a rockin' bad ass truck, but they felt like something was missing in their lives.
Both of them, the first in their families to go to college, decided to get an education, trash all their material possessions and go to school, and he said, that one semester of college, did more for his confidence and self-esteem, than all the material possessions ever did. Music to my ears, because, I love educations . . . and had I made my money I should have, off my cases, I would have set up educational foundations, and paid first for my children, who got robbed, somewhat, being denied, my help, due to the greed, lies and thefts of others, who wanted to steal, what I had, but did it through the money, but, I would pay for them to go as long and as far as they wanted, in college, because, I dig smart people, and, smart people, learn to handle, almost any situation, no matter how hard, bad, and challenging, and they have the knowledge, skills, brains, to survive! Take that $5,000 to $20,000 and invest it in YOU! your core being, in being your best you, internally! Your boyfriend, doesn't want a fake chick for a girlfriend . . . be careful, that is core deep!
Film Magic Works . . . Schmuck!
Let me tell you, this set of films, most of them, from the early 90's, were all great, and really hit home for me. I started practicing law, at about that same time, or in 1993, I graduated from law school, so right in the middle of I would say, a very corrupt, time period in our nation, in our legal system, our political system, in our working environments, and in our social structure, to the point of a moral crisis. And you will see this, come out in each one of these films, kind of the idea, that, if you can get away with it, that is okay, the shame is in getting caught, not in doing the crime, or being unethical, or breaking the law, even if you were a cop, or a prosecutor or a judge. In the movie, Plain Dirty and Beyond a Reasonable Doubt, murders are committed, to further, personal freedom, or to further a career, or to get freedom from a spouse that is not wanted, free someone to love again, and the killings are done with such, callousness, it is, not much more to these people than to make a peanut butter and jam sandwich, as Nancy Grace would say.
In Plain Dirty, the wife is having an affair with a very rich man in the community, and she is like trailer trash, married to white trash, who is abusive to her, after he finds out, of the affair, chains her to him at night, and has his friend, watch her during the day, while he is off, trying to make a living growing and selling marijuana, who eventually, colludes with her to kill the husband . . . she wants freedom from the guy, and I don't blame her, and could relate, not in physical abuse, but, in having married the mob, who has access to all police powers and programs, surveillance, up to and including the NSA, knows where I am, kills whom I am with, and feels perfectly fine, to use other women to hurt me, by making them me, literally, stealing my family, vying for my children's love and attention, creating and orchestrating situations, that keep me from them, like taking my houses, or hurting any chance of being happy with anyone, or having my career back, etc. But, she also is a romantic, believes, in dreams, signs, fortune telling, and the mythical mysteries of life, and in someone freeing her from her captive, abusive husband. The local witch tells her, that her dream lover will come to her door and take her away, and they will live happily ever after. That ends up, with the rich guy being framed for the murder of the husband, and the wife and her body guard, getting together, as if, being plain dirty, is just okay if you can get away with it, and love, makes in all okay?
Corrupt DA, 17 Straight Convictions, Running for Governor . . . Using Doctored and Manufactured DNA to Win Cases!
These are based on real cases! Sometimes when watching these, I drift off into, this is nice, but it doesn't happen in real life . . . and I even lived it, and this case was so close to my $56.7 million corruption case, against Iron County, cops, sheriffs, county attorney, judges, DCFS, that in, its simplicity, it was shocking how close it was, to that civil rights case and to another case, where the cops and prosecutors, took all self authenticating evidence off, a series of 30 pictures, taking two incidents, blending them into one, big incident and then charging my client with attempted homicide, when he didn't do a damned thing, other than keep a crazy bitch, black widow, out of the house, he never wanted in his house in the first place! I was given one set of facts from the prior attorney, a simple, cutter case, with three stitches, and easy case, and while the jury is impaneled and waiting for the trial to begin . . . my private investigator, I believe working with the prosecutors and cops, to may me look like a shitty attorney, I was not, leaned over to me, and said, oh, did you know there were 30 pictures of the crime scene? No, and I leaned over to the prosecutors, who are to turn over all exculpatory or all evidence to me, the criminal defense attorney, prior to trial, and I am looking at a totally different case, that was so far beyond, what the facts that I got were! It was a set up . . . but, I eventually took my client from attempted homicide charges, looking at 45 years in prison with gun enhancements, marijuana and paraphernalia, and got him off, on three years probation!
After a suppression hearing on the evidence, the guns, dropping 30 years, with 10 years enhancements, mandatory, for the three, inoperable old collector's guns, the cops seized, in an illegal search of the house without a warrant, as is the general rule, unless there is exigent circumstances, which were not present, and the trial, I got 6 charges down to 2, but those two, still carried with them, 15 years in prison! During the trial, I heard my alleged, private investigator, whispering to cops, during jury deliberations, after the set up, sting op, on the case, at about 12 midnight, being held until 1:00 A.M. after starting with jury selection at 8:00 A.M., and a Halloween Party going on at my house that night, say, to the bailiffs, and cops in attendance, once a cop, always a cop . . . loyalties, where totally with the other side! I fired this P.I. and hired another P.I., both had been cops for about 20 years, retired and started being private investigators . . . neither former cop would do what I told them to do, so, I did it myself! I went around, interviewed witnesses, took blood samples, for DNA testing, and wrote a 28 page briefs of my theory of the case, once I had time to think about it, knowing the full extend of the bogus file that I got, prior to the trial. I handed a copy to my client prior to sentencing and he said, what is that . . . the brief that is going to get you off all charges and get you out of jail! I don't think he believed me?
I Got 14! 14 Years is Not Bad . . . No, 14 Days!
I walked into court that morning, knowing full well, that an innocent man, had been held in jail for one year, better than the 27 or so, some inmates are, ready to lay it all on the line . . . I opened the sentencing statements, with . . . oh, first, a funny sideline to the hearing, the college, brought a bunch of students from an evidence class at the college, to show off, who good the prosecutors were, taking both me and my client out of the game . . . set a trap or snare for someone and you will fall in it yourself! LOL, but, I just stood up, having delivered my brief, and theory of the alleged crimes, to the prosecutors and judge, the day before, and said, Your Honor . . . the cops, didn't do their job, so the prosecutors could not do their job, so I could not do my job; therefore, the jury could not do its job . . . so, it is up to you, your Honor, to straighten out this mess! All four prosecutors in court that day, had their heads bowed, same with the cops, and the students, were rushed out of the courtroom ASAP! LOL!
The judge closed his eyes, and didn't speak, and I could tell, that he didn't want to let my client go, but, he knew that I was right, starting with the doctored evidence, the 30 fucked up pictures without dates and times, given to me in the order the prosecutors used to tell their bogus story, the two merged incidents of the black widow, going to the hospital, with a cop picking her up once, and her brother picking her up the second time, when she fell in barbwire, cutting the shit out of her--getting a nasty gash on her head, and cuts all over her legs, she said, were defensive wounds, while she was laying on the ground, fighting my client off, having blamed her drunken stupor, and fall, on my client, who was in jail at the time, so they merged, the two events into one, and charged my client with attempted homicide for the huge ass number of stitches, this bitch got, by being drunk, having a grand maul seizure, and tripping on the barbwire! I told, my P.I. to take a picture of, months before, and he didn't, but I remembered it, from going to my client's house, when one of his cell mates, tried to give me Allan's house, in exchange for taking his case, thinking Allan was going to be a lifer, and had no chance of getting released from jail, and looking at the rest of his life in prison!
In the 5 year period, that me and my other clients, from the same county, looked back, at the win/lose record of the Iron County Prosecutor's Office, we saw 0 win for the defendant, and 100% wins for the prosecution . . . Salt Lake, killer criminal defense attorneys--Ron Yengich and Jason Shots to name two, who ventured back, after I sued, could not win a case in the county, I sued for $56.7 million! After I sued on the civil rights case, bad asses, from Salt Lake, started to take cases again in the county, because, things were getting straightened out! But, just like in the movie, as the two young journalists, tried to expose the DA or district attorney, head prosecutor, who everyone thought was so good, and could not lose a case, played by Michael Douglas, winning 17 straight, try 5 years . . . no corruption here, no fixed evidence, no plain dirty here! yeah, right! but, the lead detective, would look at the evidence, and if it was lacking, he would find, DNA proof, and doctor the crime scene photos by adding the newly acquired evidence, after the fact . . . photo shop!
The DNA evidence was the only evidence linking the accused to the crime! The lead detective, also became the henchman for the DA, and if someone was ready to expose his case fixing, so he could run for governor, looking tough on crime, he would take them out, like he did to the journalist, who took the pictures of the staged involvement in the case, with the other journalist, setting up the DA, so he could expose the corruption, and the cop hit man, would kill the opposition . . . I have 26 people, I am aware of, who are fucking DEAD in connection to my cases . . . and I am sure there are more, as time has gone on! Later the girlfriend, assistant DA, starts poking around, and finds, that, her in prison, boyfriend journalist, is right, she goes to computer experts, as they confirm that a cigarette butt, allegedly at the murder scene, was in fact, taken, later at the interrogation room, and then, placed at the murder scene, for DNA proof, and conviction, connecting the causal link between the dead woman and the alleged defendant!
In my case, the doctored evidence was much easier to do, and the cops and prosecutors, to add the two events together, just, took off the necessary, evidence of dates and times, of when the photos were taken, and took them out, and then arranged the pictures in the order, that matched their story or theory, but, it really didn't . . . the chain of photos, didn't make sense and that is what, first started to make me, see what was going on, after the judge allowed the 30 doctored photos in as evidence, against all the rules of evidence . . . what do the rules matter? shit! But, the blood patterns didn't match their line of reasoning, nor telling of the events of that, one alleged evening! The show for the college class didn't go down like the prosecutors wanted! They looked like the shits they were and probably still are! LOL! In the movie, however, the girlfriend, looking at the photos closer, realizes that her boyfriend's journalism award, and his hidden witness, is the same person, as the newly murdered woman, and he did it. And, just like I would do, she turns on her murderous partner, and turns him into police . . . he looks shocked, like he was worth more than the female prostitute he murdered to catch the DA! My kind of prosecutor, FAVORS FOR NONE, JUSTICE FOR ALL!
MALICE--I AM GOD!
I can relate to this one too . . . previous lovers, collude to defraud, both the husband, through cheating, and the insurance company, when, old high school chum, doctor--Alec Baldwin, meets up with professor buddy, married to Nicole Kidman, and through, a scam, of fake fertility problems, doctor visits, claims of pregnancy and medical malpractice, the pair, plan to get $20 million, and take the money, and ditch the husband, who loves her. The part, I love best, and one that fits here, in my case, is Kay and Brett, the little lovers, had eyes on just getting rid of me, making Kay me, which they did, dead or alive, let her have the advantage of my resume, SOOOOO much better than hers, giver her a get in free card to any government job, like with the FBI or CIA, on a national level, where I should have been without being poisoned, 5 years before that, and also, using this fabricated family, taking my red-haired son's music, bringing Shelley's bastard, Isaac, who could be, a genetic mix of Kay and Brett, or Shelley and Brett, that was was probably real, mix and match, to defraud, sabotage my son's band, that Brett knew was good, probably had been stealing his stuff long before, lead singer, Blake Donner was murdered, in the Death Cave incident . . . don't worry, murder, okay, if love is there, two Bonnie and Clydes, or multiples all over the place, love, drugs, sex and rockin' roll, justice, NAH! But, the funny thing is, these two or more shits, think they are too cool, too smart, too beautiful, too charming to get caught . . . and just like in the movie, they play the husband for a fool, and Nicole Kidman, tells her husband, that he is playing in a league he doesn't even understand and catch deal with, so just drop it.
The big difference in this case and my case, is there is a female detective, who actually does her job, and doesn't determine who she will defend and go after, depending on who she wants to sleep with best! . . . she is all about, business and goes against the fucking bad guys, you goddamned fucked up stupid boob crazed, fucked up Cops! prosecutors, FBI, CIA--so, I am not in Kay's and Brett's league, fuck, it took that faggot Brett, 6 women or more, to make ME! and all you clowns, and I single handed, took your sorry asses down--just like the chump husband! LOL! Look at MY goddamned resume, you shits, you pathetic dicks, you loser fucks! God! Who should be the GODS? God's Revolver, and the mother who birthed him, plus, a Goddess in her own fucking RIGHT! FBI, the untouchables, like the scene form the movie . . . Nail'em, you dumb shits! There is NOTHING OF MERIT either of these pigs did, nor all of them, other than steal what was NOT THEIRS! and the only thing good about them, was ME, other than become ME or make another band, MY SONS band! The only explanation, is fucking dirty ass players, in the cops, prosecutors, judges, legislators, clients, and whomever the fuck, they bribed! BRIBERY was the only thing they did good, and murder, or and robbery . . . fucking NICE, LAW ENFORCEMENT? GOD ALL MIGHTY . . . YOU FUCKING NEED A YEAR OF MERCY, MERCYf!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Favors for All Cops, Justice For NO VICTIMS!
WATCH THE FUCKING FILMS . . . PERHAPS YOU WILL SEE YOURSELVES, YOUR BOSSES, YOUR GODS! HA!
CLUSTER FUCK OF CIA, FBI, COP, PROSECUTOR, JUDGE, LEGISLATIVE, STATE AND FEDERAL CLOWNS!
YOU HAVE to KNOW, YOU ARE DEFENDING SERIAL KILLERS!
