MECHA PHANTOM BEAST TOKENS
COMPLEX ADAPTIVE SYSTEMS
Me and, for ease of conversation and fear of repetition of words, overuse, and reader fatigue, I am just going to give my friend and code name, kind of a scary one, but the one that came to mind . . . PENNYWISE, there is a connection to her name, and, that, kind of has to do with, the topic, of bad construction, plus a combo of some of the issues, she wanted me to think, pray, and meditate on. So, Pennywise and I met, at the Kirkland Library, not on purpose, but, simply, fate, or providence, or whatever, nothing special, but not planned. We were deeply, engaged in a fun, but, valuable conversation, on, the act of sexual harassment and violence, the lines between love and hate, loving and brutal sex, and the reasons, someone, might, cross the line between the two . . . rage, anger, something someone said, my blog, politics, and all kinds of reasons, in her case, she revealed, something to her lover's family, that he, didn't think or agree that she should do, or say, but, she felt, that it was critical to future family relations, but, after the fact, what had been loving, sex, sweet and tender feelings turned into a rape! She didn't go into details, but, due to the relationship, and the time, back in the day, while she had been raped, she, took it on the chin, and didn't report it, or do something with that crime, committed by someone she loved, dearly, but she made the point, that, there was a line that was crossed, that broke trust, love, bonds, sexual attraction, chemistry, and there would, never, be any occasion, that, she saw, that could heal what had been done to her, without, him getting angry, or pissed, or even expressing his feelings, but for his actions he seemed to take out on her sexually, because, he could!
THOUGHTS ON THE BRAIN. A MENTAL RAPE? SOME THOUGHTS, CAN'T BE EASILY ERASED. BATTERY--AN OFFENSIVE TOUCHING. ASSAULT--HARMFUL PHYSICAL OR THREATENING ACTIONS . . . VERBAL COUNTS!
I mentioned that, after, seeing Mr. Phallic in full salute, Hollywood, and Bollywood, that, I could not get that picture out of my mind. Now, to most people, that, is no big deal, but some of us, are old fashioned, and, while I took it in great humor, just the way, the exposure, happened, there was, something, that, sort of crept up on me, and bothered me . . . not a lot, but, sufficiently, that, I mentioned it, I said it reminded me of one of my male roommates in Kalispell, Montana, springing, a similar, but, worse, view of live porn, in my very virgin mind, of the first time a man, buttfucked or did anal sex, on a woman, and, the whole thing, the pulling of the hair, her, in pain, and, what appeared to be a very, rough and violent, scene to me, being, so not used, even to nudity, seeing my mind as virgin territory, guarded all my life, from shit like this, and buying, my early girlhood training and teachings, that your brain is like a garden, you can grow weeds or plant flowers. For the most part, while, adding some sex for spice, or to put some zest, in my writing, it is fun, but, the thought of doing, no HARM, or in Pennywise's word, not, promoting, violence or evil, and introducing it to, the mind of another.
We talked about, boundaries, and respecting, those lines of demarcation between, you and someone else . . . and just as we were involved in this, rather, intellectually, stimulating, and even, legally expansive, idea and notion of crimes, of battery and assault, informing, Pennywise, that, she could be right, that, the pictures, the video, the porn, were, a form of mental, psychological, and emotional, battery and assault to, pretty, still, prudish, sentiments. It was literally on my mind all day, this, almost like a sneak attack, more, due to me, not expecting anything like that, and being so far, from, getting or sending pictures, that, the thoughts were foreign to me . . . I also, found great humor, in the incident and had to laugh, each time, I thought of my kids, reading it, knowing me, and, being shocked that I would ever even write about, sex, let alone, joke about, a man's, penis! LOL. So, various responses, but I was amazed at the sensory, not, violation, but, ambush, you might, say, that, was first and foremost, innocent, in my friends, mind, but, and far cry, from my mind, or expectations! WE TAKE OUR VICTIMS, FRIENDS AND MINDS AS WE FIND THEM! RIGHT? NOW, PENNYWISE IS EVEN MORE, FINE TUNED AND SHE IS OLDER, AND, THIS STUFF WAS UNHEARD OF, BACK IN OUR DAY! SO, CONSIDER THE SOURCE, THE TIME FRAMES AND WHATEVER, THAT ADDS TO A SHOCKING, SIGHT! LOL!
ENTER THE PHANTOM BEAST!
While we were heavily involved, in solving the world's problems on, mental, and psychic rape, this, older woman, in her late 60's or early 70's, nicely, dressed, and appeared to be, probably a widow, came up to our table, heard us laughing, girl talk, and she came right up by me, and, I think, she must have, put, two and two, together, so many people, particularly, from, this area, since, this is where I hang out, the Seattle, Bellevue, Kirkland, and Greenwood, areas, and write about them, I think, this woman, who, almost slipped, or so it seemed and called me, JO, cutting off, the familiar term of JoAnn, which, led me to believe, she was either, a fan, a plant, or, she had, other reasons, for being so direct and invasive, but, I was somewhat offended, by her intrusion and seemingly, lack of social, sensitivities, taking liberty and license, to just bud into our conversations, without, call or reason, other than, it looked fun, just one of the gals, but, a total stranger, so it seemed odd, to say the least . . . perhaps, this woman, read my blog, or so it seemed by this outburst of what to her was a funny joke, but to Pennywise, she didn't appreciate the first on, and specifically, requested, and insisted, that she was not interested in hearing the second, of the women's, two dirty joke . . . the first one, and really, the second one, were, a bit uncomfortable, especially, with the man, sitting on the table next to us . . . the joke: and I can't really, remember, it, but she said, something, like, why would a woman, like to date a bald headed man . . . so she had somewhere to put her gum at night! Of colored, but, okay.
My buddy, is like many, people, from Seattle, kind and very sensitive, to making anyone, feel uncomfortable as, she felt the man, who could hear us, that I didn't even see, feel bad, that he was, bald, but for the Friar Tuck, tuft of hair around the bottom of the skull. She said, and pointed to the man behind me, as the women, tried, to press the other joke, but meeting with resistance, and she was forceful, in making it clear, that one joke was, more than enough. I covered and said, yeah, but you know what, they say about, bald men, that they are smarter, than men with a full head of hair, and I have read studies on that, but I am guessing that, to some men, that is not a subject, they want to joke about . . . modern men, and this dude was not young, a senior, solved the issue by, getting a Telli Savalis, bad ass cop, hair cut! LOL. So, the woman, still chomping at the bit, to get that second, joke in, again, said, something like she would really, like to tell us that joke . . . again, Penny in no uncertain terms, said, no, I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT! SHE EVEN PLUGGED HER EARS AND THE WOMAN, SAID, I AM GOING TO TELL IT ANYWAY!!!!!!!!
WITH A TOTAL DISREGARD, THE WOMAN PROCEEDED ANYWAY!
A woman, went to visit her aging husband, in the nursing home, and, the nurse was giving, her hub, of 55 some odd, years, a little blue pill, and she asked, the aid, what that blue pill was . . . she said, Viagra. The wife, was puzzled, and said, why would you give, a man, this age, Viagra . . . because, after it works, I know he is not going to roll out of bed! Sort of LOL. Pennywise was, pissed, and just, tried to ignore the woman, which we both did. I laughed to make her feel better, and got a least and off colored, smile out of it. What exactly is this? My friend, felt, violated, she felt, mentally, put upon, she, was taken back, that this woman, had so little respect and regard for her, feelings and sensitivities, that, she, started to get exercised, herself, and say, that this was, to her, a form of sexual harassment, or sexual assault, to her brain, she didn't want it, she told the woman, no, and the woman, did it anyway, much, like a man, can rape the body, another person, can rape the mind, in a figurative sense of the idea . . . an unwanted touching, we discussed, and pondered the idea, of whether a court, could extend, these ideas, that happen all the time in the workplace, by co-workers, clueless, to the offensive nature of their jokes, or water cooler talks, and basically assaulting, someone, verbally, putting unwanted, thoughts or ideas, in their minds . . .
I just did a typo, U, like God intel, is saying, you swearing, is doing the same thing, to your readers; however, the difference, between, me, and someone, in ears shot, is that, my readers have to make a conscience, effort, to get into my blogspot, and hit the posts, and then, proceed to read them, all of which, if offended are SELF-INFLICTED WOUNDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THIS SECOND, AND FIRST, JOKE, WERE FORCED ON MY FRIEND, WHO, EVEN MADE HER WISHES KNOWN . . . NO BODY, HAS TO READ MY BLOG, IT CAN BE POISON AND OFF LIMITS, TO ANYONE, NOBODY IS MAKING YOU READ, OR, EVER, EVEN, LOOK IT UP ON THE INTERNET, SO, IF, YOU DON'T LIKE IT, OR ARE OFFENDED, YOU HAVE, NOBODY BUT YOURSELF TO BLAME!
THE FRATERNITY PUNCH BOWL . . . LAW SCHOOL CASE ON BATTERY!
Like all good lawyers, to see, if there is a mental, battery or assault, you turn to the classic case, that set the standard for, what, a BATTERY OR AN OFFENSIVE TOUCHING, consists of, and this is the landmark, killer case, that makes a point, of this type of fact pattern, not that anyone would sue over it, but, when, this type of behavior, starts to create a HOSTILE WORK ENVIRONMENT, WE START TO GET INTO TROUBLE! So, there was this fraternity or maybe a graduation party, it has been, what, 28 years, since I had this case, so, bear with me, but, there was a party of some sort, and there, were people at the party who were, non-alcohol drinkers, so, there were two, bowls of punch: (A) one labeled, NON-ALCOHOLIC DRINK; and (B) ALCOHOL. Like all kids, there is a group, of pranksters, who, poured, alcohol in the punch bowl, labeled, non-alcoholic drink, but, the kids, didn't know about it, and after a while and a few drinks, some of the kids, who had never had alcohol before, started doing things they would, never, have done otherwise, and acting, in their minds, in unsavory, ways in front of their peers and friends, and when, they learned why, this happened, their parents, sued, the kids and their parents, for introducing their kids to this, form of what to Mormons and other religions is against their beliefs, so OFFENSIVE? A TOUCHING?
The courts, found, as I recall, that, given the set of facts, the circumstances, and the situation, there was a battery, and the kids, were, either found, guilty of a crime or, in a civil suit, while, never having directly, touched, the other students, just by placing the alcohol, in the other bowl, they had, effectively, though, inadvertently, touched, through the alcohol, the other person or student, and therefore, they were, convicted, or lost the lawsuit, can't remember, what the system they were in was, but, there was a battery, without a direct touching . . . if we applied the rule of law, and extended that, to, introducing, some mental image, that, the other, might or might not know, could, be considered an offensive, touching, can they be held, culpable, or responsible, for a battery? Possibly. But, while, most of us, are reasonable enough, not to look, at these things, say a torqued, dick, or, a brutal, first experience with rough, anal sex, that was not expected, and like I have written, if I were to guess, why some bride, might push, her otherwise, loved and loving, new hubby or boyfriend, off a cliff, or the 17th floor of a hotel, or stab him in the shower, like Jodi Arias did Josh, much, like verbal or mental, domestic violence, there could be a circumstance that, rises to a level, where someone would, sue, or kill, or, that this ambush, on your moral values, or mental health, might, cause some deep, emotional and mental harm.
I LOVE PEOPLE, LIKE PENNYWISE, WHO, HAS A SOPHISTICATED MIND, AND MAKES ME THINK!
AS WE BANTERED, THOUGHTS, EMOTIONS AND IDEAS AROUND . . . I THOUGHT, HEY, I'M THE ATTORNEY HERE! LOL. SHE WAS TAKING ME INTO, SOME LEGAL GRAY AREAS, BUT, THAT IS WHERE, THE LAW ENDS UP SOMETIMES!
THOSE ARE THE CASES, THAT, END UP, BEING CHALLENGED, SOME, ALL THE WAY TO THE U.S. SUPREME COURT, SILLY AS THAT MAY SEEM TO YOU . . . TO OTHERS, WHETHER IS BE, THEIR BODIES, MINDS, OR THEIR SOULS, THAT HAVE BEEN VIOLATED, WE TAKE OUR, FRIENDS, STRANGERS, VICTIMS, AS WE GET THEM!
IT IS SO MUCH, EASIER, TO, JUST REMEMBER--YOUR RIGHTS, END, AT TH END OF YOUR NOSE!
THAT ALWAYS WORKS FOR ME!
TRY IT! BOUNDARIES! YOU BE YOU!
NOW, VALENTINE'S DAY IS UPON US . . . BE CREATIVE, ROMANTIC, FUN, AND SEE WHAT MAGIC, YOU GET IN RETURN!
DON'T FORGET TO KISS!
FRENCH KISSING ALWAYS WORKS FOR ME!
PUSSY CAT JUICE!
CATWOMAN!
MEOW!
SWINK.
