I Have Too Many Friends Who Want to Save the World
The first thing I heard this morning, barely awake, was my fellow camper at the Montana/Billings Women's and Child Rescue Mission, was, that . . . I have too many friends who want to save the world, that's funny, so do I! LOL! She proceeded to read me a great, epilogue, of this person, wondering to what extent he/she would go to, sitting in New Zealand, and what it would take, or what they were willing to sacrifice for world peace? The soliloquy went on, proposing what it might take, or what they might be asked to sacrifice, and they said, they would gladly and willingly pay that price . . . freedom is not free, nor is peace, and sometimes you have to go to war, to get to peace. With that thought on my mind, I headed over to the Internet watering hole section of town, and walked, just the other side of the street, from, what I surmise is the Police Department, and there was this, like obelisk shaped, plastic marker, sticking out of the flower or scrub area, near the building, that said, something like, we are a community of peace, promoting, peace within the limits and borders of this city. I know that is not close, coming from memory, and I should have taken my backpack off to write down the statements and slogan, because, those were powerful words; however, out of practicality, and logic, dealing with this newly designed backpack, designed to stay on my back, once it is on, but hard to get on and even harder to get off . . . guess you can't have it both ways, so I opted to go from memory. It's the thought that counts!
Even in the darkness of the early morning, with my bunk mates, cell phone light, glaring in my face, as I tried to open my eyes, and get the jest of what this person was saying, fully relating to the message, that almost sounded like a quote from a world leader, or something, but I thought, I am glad to hear, that people, across the globe, in New Zealand, and I would bet tons of other places, feel exactly like this person, and myself, and many others . . . how do we create world peace? one person at a time, one heart at a time, one changed soul at a time, one person, turning from hate to love, at a time . . . catching fire, across the oceans, jumping continents, setting the hearts of man, on fire with, flames that fan, heaven on earth, and, and only then, shall we truly have peace, and live in harmony, enjoying the beauties of all countries, the advancements in lifestyles, educations, agriculture, technology, science, the arts, and the humanities, being all committed to giving the good life, rights, freedom, liberty, and prosperity to all man, their children, and their children's children. A truly great thought, to start my day! Keep up the good thoughts, work and sacrifices in New Zealand!
Nothing Like A Good Movie, Based on True Events, To Sober You Up From Being Drunk on Hot Passion! LOL!
THE FORCE
This is double play on the word, force; it is about a new rookie on the police force, and the mystic connection between the rockie and a season detective, best cop on the force. The movie starts with a female, who is a hooker, and pregnant, going to a local mobster, tough guy's house to pay off a $10,000 debt, and she ends up with a masked intruder, coming in and gunning her down, while her fellow prostitute friend, takes a walk out by the swimming pool, admiring the luxury of the place. Mr. Detective, gets on the scene and is upset, about the shooting, and several other cops, make fun of him, being sentimental over a street girl, working girl; however, he had been working with her, to get her off the streets, and she had become a friend. The older cop was married with a young son, also, trained in martial arts, and he and his son, had this secret way to say, hello, good bye, or just to touch each other. Later that night, daddy cop, gets a note from, allegedly, the mobster, telling him, to meet him at the old jail, now abandoned, because he has some information, that will help the cop solve the case of the murdered, pregnant prostitute. On his way to the old jail, he allegedly has an accident on his motorcycle, attributed to the fact, that he chose to ride without a helmet and when he wrecked, he died of brain injuries.
At the same time, the detective dies on his bike, a younger officer, is also called and set by dispatch to the same location, to the old jail, with his female partner for backup. There were some kids, breaking the law, who took a gun to the rookie and shot him, and while he is lying their shot, the detective, or the shadow of the older cop, comes walking up the the injured rookie, leaving you thinking, he is there to help him, before hearing of the accident . . . next thing, the rookie is with the female partner, recovering from his gun shot wound, while still in the hospital. From that point on, the rookie, experiences, these episodes, of taking on the bad guys, like he had once seen the detective, stop a hostage situation, using tricks and his martial arts, to stop a potentially dangerous situation for all involved, leaving no one majorly injured, other than the bad guy. The rookie seems to have a heightened, interest in the dead detective's case, on the dead prostitute, and he goes over to the cop's widow's house, and seems to have the husband and father, channeling through him, knows the wife's name, does the little father and son, routine, on the handshake, and tells her what he is feeling, and how, this mythic connection is playing out. At first she is skeptic, but can't believe he knows so much, that only her husband knew.
To make a long story short, the rookie, feels that when he can solve the case of the murdered mommy prostitute, this magical connection will stop, and he and the dead cop's wife, can get on with their individual business. When all is said and done . . . the sheriff running for re-election, killed the prostitute, the detective, set the lieutenant up to take the fall, had the rookie cop chased, went after the wife, because, the rookie and her, were figuring things out, and the prostitute was pregnant with the sheriff's baby! Now if some guy, can't, or hasn't figured out, what makes a baby, by that late in his career, he either ought to keep his pecker in his pants at home, or give up aspirations of grandeur, running or trying to stay in office, but killing several people, trying to cover his indiscretions, is so, totally not cool, and is always the case, the cover up is worse than the original offense or crime . . . murder trumps, adultery!
Real Life Application . . . Down Home and Personal
I was talking to one of several pregnant women, girls, in the rescue mission, and one of them, happened to mention, that the father of her baby was dead. I told her I was sorry, and wished her the best. She then spilled her guts, about the babies father . . . a fucking 72 year old guy, that, either faked his own death, or took off, but she can't find a death certificate for him, so her hopes of supporting the baby on his veterans benefits or social security, is non-existent. My guess, is the guy is on a fixed income, bugged this younger woman for sex, wanted the fun, but none of the responsibility, and took of when he heard she was pregnant, knowing, that he would be 90 years old, by the time, he was done paying child support. Girls just wanna have fun too . . . and the way it sounded, as is generally the case, guys will push for the sex, but if a baby results, guess who gets up and leaves, dropping all the responsibility on the woman, who was not the prime mover, for the sexual side of the relationship!
I think, my wise old grandmother, had it right, back, 70 years ago, when dealing with her own kids, one getting pregnant out of wedlock, when she decided after the fact, that the best thing for a young girl or fertile woman of any age, is to take out a simple contract, stating that, should a baby result, in this fun sexy night, the guy, will promise to pay for the child, support the child, up to and including his/her 18th birthday. Wanna go limp real fast? That reality will do it, but there would be far less girls, women, in the shelters, if they thought first and had sex second. Of course, that was back in the day, when the state, didn't go after the errant daddies, like I have seen them, now days, in the offices of recovery services and child support agencies and divisions of attorney generals offices. Men, in all your hot to trot, take some precautions, it takes two to tangle, don't always think the gal is responsible to protect against an unwanted pregnancy, and it will fuck your life up, almost as much, as hers, as we will see, from this next, true life movie!
THE HUSBAND SHE MET ONLINE
In this case, the guy, was the son of a rich, matriarch of a very wealthy family, and the eldest son, like is generally the case, was the favored son, the over-achiever, the one the family relied on, but also the one, most controlled by the overly domineering mother. The second son, or second children in general, are usually, the wild child, and they throw off the yoke of the parents and do their own thing, loving whom they will, not giving a rat's ass, about what their parents, or mother wants for them, as did the second son, still connected into the family business, but much freer from mommy's clutches and control. In this case, the eldest son, fell in love, or lust with, a girl, the mother didn't feel was from the right social circles for her son, so she did not accept the girl, and tried to get her son to leave her. The son, refused to stand up to his mother, also worried about being cut out of the family fortune and not willing to risk that for a woman.
However, when girlfriend gets pregnant, which, through the miracle of science, is going to happen, if either the man or the women, don't step and take some precautions, is going to fucking result in creating a baby, the measure of our creation, if you go by biblical verse . . . you partake of the fruit, the snake is going to get Eve and you will have a baby, if you are both healthy, male and female, just the wonder of life and the propagation of the species. The worst thing, either a man or a woman can do . . . and here is an argument for Planned Parenthood funding by Congress, is, to let the other person, worry about, protecting you against an unwanted pregnancy! Courts, state systems, like welfare, and child support, are not sympathetic to men, and that is good, because the woman, already pays, she doesn't have the options, men do to walk away, but for abortion, and many women, reject that as an option; therefore, better protection, prevention, and a realistic view of sex . . . we are wired to be attracted to the opposite sex, generally, and sex is a natural result of that attraction, so, if you are trusting someone else to protect you, either from a pregnancy, motherhood, fatherhood, and responsibility, for this one night, of please, fun, entertainment, think again!
Either partner, may promise they are on the pill . . . there is one for men, now, I think I heard, but, to be safe, erring always on the side of safety, taking this from experience, with a guy who kept pushing me to get off the pill, and still pushing for sex, trusting him, to be in charge, by early withdrawal after getting off the pill, and telling him, I was starting a new life, now that I was out of law school, and had a job at the Utah Attorney Generals Office, so this was the last time I was going to be with him . . . ah, it is called, entrapment, and not just perpetrated by cops, although, in retrospect, he is a fucking cop, making more and more sense as time goes on . . . a great way to stop, someone who was probably long focused on, having scored top in 180 students in constitutional law, at BYU, with almost the entire, FBI, CIA, and top cops in the country, being in favor of the Patriot Act, that was well in use, even before, Congress ever voted on it, and before 9/11 happened, ushering in the unconstitutional law! All it takes is once! My darling daughter, thought, she was immune from pregnancy, on her honeymoon! LOL! Two weeks later, she was taking a pregnancy test and sick! If you want to have sex, married, unmarried, committed or uncommitted, and you don't want a baby or are not ready for an unwanted pregnancy, fucking protect yourself, male or female, old or young!
Back to our movie . . . so this alleged, young hot shot, rich dude, is confronted by his girlfriend mother doesn't like, nor want as a daughter-in-law, and she starts to goad him, and make fun of him, pissing him off, by saying, most men, who love a woman, will stick up for her, and defend her against a mother . . . a man is to cleave to his wife, and leave his father and mother, and to cleave to none other (Bible). What finally is the straw that breaks the young man's back, is, she lowers the bomb on him that she is pregnant, adding what she thought would create, more allegiance, to her, than to mother . . . but it only infuriates him, he tells her that it doesn't fit into his plans, what he wants for his life . . . and you think, it fit into her plans? He gets pissed and chokes her to death, kills her, induces his brother, to come help him, dispose of the body and the problem. Again the cover up is always worse than the mess you are in! Having a baby, is much less messy than, having the cops crawling up your ass, on a murder rap! What the hell are you thinking? One, such young rich man, in a real U.S. Supreme Court case, I used to teach in my family law classes, was fighting the child support all the way up the court system, and claimed the girl tricked him? said she was on birth control and the court, merely said, what is wrong with you protecting yourself? and ordered he pay his ex-girlfriend, $3600 per month, back 20 years ago! Each semester, several young, husbands, would say, I wished I had your class a year or two ago, being roped into a marriage, through a baby . . . good advice, ask yourself, could I marry this woman, if, I had to? If not, don't have sex!
Sometimes, Just Sex is a Scary Thing, When Your Married
AN UNFINISHED AFFAIR
In this one, again, you have a basically happy, married guy, who has a wife, that is fighting cancer. During this time, he is also, teaching a class at the local university, ends up, being enticed, seduced, or seducing a student, and it sounds like it is in a graduate school program, because, after the guy's wife, goes into remission on cancer, he is going to quit the college and he recommends this younger woman, to take his place. Well, he is cutting off a year affair, and going back to his wife, who is on the amends, and coming back to health from cancer, being truly in love with her, his wife. The pupil or colleague, has created a life time plan for her and this man, but, that is not what he ever looked at it as. Although, at the time he started the affair, and it doesn't show, exactly how that happened, I think, the woman just assumed, the wife was dying and she was in line, to be the next Mrs. as soon as the old dying wife, bit the dust. That was not the case, and the guy was dumping her. This is not a woman to take this lying down, or just being cast aside, she felt, and as she should have, appropriately so, used and abused and this guy was not going to get away with it. She ends up hooking up with the guy's son! at a Yoga class, and he takes her to a family party.
The entanglements get deeper and deeper . . . first his son, next is an oil painting, that had been in the family business warehouse, and the grandfather, or father of his wife, finds out, that the painting, is one of a set, and some museum is willing to pay, almost a million dollars for the one picture missing. The ex learns from the father of her new bow, that he wants, what she thought was a gift, back, so he can protect himself, not only from the affair, but the investigation of the missing painting with detectives, going to make everyone at work take a lie detector test. All this does, is give the ex-girlfriend more ammo against the man, she still loves. She is either going to get him, or kill him, making him pay, or kill a family member. Eventually, she almost kills his wife, her rival, by pretending that this is the way to go on motorcycles, at the family ranch, leaving the recovering wife, still weak, hanging off a cliff, barely by a branch, until the husband sees her. The son, then announces he is marrying the ex-girlfriend, and the father, follows them, sees her trapping, his own son, just like he was trapped. He pays some ex-con to get the painting from her. And it this twisted plot, she kills the ex-con, frames the son, and it looks like she is absconding with the valued painting . . . father and son, after he is framed, and the cops are after the son, team up, and eventually take down the ex-girlfriend of both of them! It was pretty intense, sad for all parties . . . the mistress felt used, the husband haunted by the affair, that he eventually had to tell, now, both his son and his wife, about, so she was hurt and an already bad relationship between father and son, got worse. But, eventually, the family all forgave and the girl was arrested. But not without a shit load of trouble . . . seriously, is it worth it?
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