THE PERVERTED PREACHER: SPIRITUAL CONTROL, VERBAL, SEXUAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE, MANIPULATION, CONTROLS THEIR VICTIMS, OFTEN FAMILY MEMBERS . . . EVENTUALLY, MOLESTS OLDEST DAUGHTER, KILLED MOTHER WHO KICKED HIM OUT, BECAUSE OF THE INCEST, CONTROLS OTHER CHILDREN THROUGH SCRIPTURES--EVEN JUSTIFYING THE INCEST, THE MURDER--GOD WANTS US TO CLEAN THIS UP, THE POWER AND CONTROL CAME THROUGH, A CLOSED FAMILY SYSTEM, CHURCH, AND ISOLATION! HELLO, NINJA TURTLES! WEEP NOT FOR ME, BUT THE BELL, IT TOLLS FOR THEE (FAULKNER). WHERE YOU GOT YOUR START MATTERS. EARLY FAMILY DYNAMICS ALWAYS COME INTO PLAY IN CRIMES AND ABORANT BEHAVIOR LATER MANIFEST THROUGH PARENTS AND CHILDREN ACTING OUT, LATER IN LIFE. I BELIEVE THIS IS ONE SUCH SITUATION, THAT I VERY TRUE, AND I MAY NOT KNOW THE FAMILY SECRETS, HAVING OPTED OUT OF THE FAMILY BY OUT THE AGE 12, BECOMING THE CHILD OF THE COMMUNITY, SCHOOL, CHURCH, AND VERY MUCH SEEING MY FATHER IN HEAVEN AS MY GUIDE AND LEADER, NEVER TRUSTING IN THE ARM OF FLESH, OR MAN! ONE OF THE DETECTIVES IN THE "PERVERTED PREACHER" SAID, AFTER HE HEARD THE TALES OF HORROR, THE INCEST, THE MURDER OF THE MOTHER, LEAVING HER BODY IN THE FOREST, THEN BURYING HER, THEN PUTTING HER IN THE BASEMENT FREEZER, ALWAYS INSISTING ON THE HELP OF THE ELDEST DAUGHTER, WHOM HE MOLESTED, WHO SAW HER FATHER KILL HER MOTHER, SAW HIM MOLEST THE NEXT DAUGHTER, AND RELIED ON HER TO KEEP THE FAMILY GOING AFTER THE MOTHER WAS KILLED . . . TRAGEDY, AND DEFINILEY A CASE OF THE SINS OF THE FATHERS, COMING DOWN ON THE HEADS OF THE CHILDREN, SEVEN FOLD! PARENTS YOU NEED TO DO A BETTER JOB! ALL OF US! SADNESS, SORROW, SHATTERED LIVES, RUINED FUTURES, GENERATIONS WILL PAY, FOR THE SINS OF THE HEADS BEING VISITED ON THE HEADS OF THEIR CHILDREN! HAVING A CHILD IS NO JOKING MATTER . . . BE A GOOD ONE! I LOVE THE AD, YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE A PERFECT PERSON TO BE A PERFECT PARENT. THERE ARE NO INSTRUCTIONS THAT COME WITH RAISING GOOD KIDS, BUT THERE ARE THE BASICS, STARTING WITH LOVE, FOOD, SHELTER, PROTECTION, CONCERN, AND COUNSELING! BUCK UP PARENTS, YOU HAVE AN IMPORTANT JOB, MAYBE THE MOST IMPORTANT JOB IN SOCIETY! DO YOUR JOB WELL! AND REMEMBER, AS ONE OF THE DETECTIVES IN THIS CASE SAID . . . THIS CASE MADE HIM WANT TO NEVER GO TO CHURCH AGAIN, NOT BECAUSE OF CHURCH, SCRIPTURES ITSELF, BUT BECAUSE OF MAN, OR MEN, HE WANTED TO STAY AWAY FROM! THAT IS A REAL MAN'S REACTION, TO SPIRITUAL PERVERSIONS, SCRIPTURAL COVERS FOR POLYGAMY, MULTIPLE PARTNERS, AND EVEN SPIRITUAL WIVES . . . AND ISN'T IT AMAZING THAT IS ALWAYS MEN WHO CLAIM TO SPEAK WITH GOD AND FOR GOD! MEN ARE MEN. I REMEMBER, SHELLEY, OFTEN WHEN DISCUSSING THE ISSUE OF POLYGAMY, WOULD JUST SAY, IT SOUNDS LIKE MAN-SPEAK! NOW, I THINK SHE LIVES AND EMBRACES IT! SCREAM! I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW MANY CRIMES SHOWS, INVOLVE, SO CALLED RELIGIOUS MEN OR MEN OF GOD, CLERGY AND WHAT NOT, WHO ARE ALLEGEDLY THE PERFECT FAMILY, AND THEN SOME HOT NEW MEMBER JOINS THE CONGREGATION, AND THE NEXT THING YOU KNOW, THERE IS AN AFFAIR, AND ONE OF THE SPOUSES OF THE COUPLE, ENDS UP DEAD! MEN ARE JUST MEN, WOMEN ARE JUST WOMEN, HOPEFULLY DOING THEIR BEST IN THIS LIFE TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT!

The Perfect Family . . . Watch Out!

You reader can infer what you want from reading between the lines, but, the man in this true crime story, married a woman with two daughters from a previous marriage, he had a few, and then the couple had a few of their own.  The father, who ended up being the perverted preacher, had dreams of becoming a preacher, when he and his new wife, got married, she wanting a good man, and man of God, after failing in her first marriage.  From what everyone could see, they were, in fact the perfect family, and eventually, even started travelling around, being a visiting preacher, with his beautiful wife, and their large family, either 6 or 7 children, performing gospel music and song.  But, soon the congregation started to wonder about the children, who didn't act like children at all, but almost acted as perfect when in the congregation, as they did while performing on stage, leaving them to ask why these kids seemed so different than all the other kids in the churches, that often ran, wiggled, fought, cried, and had to be removed from the services, for bad behavior.  But this never happened with these kids, who stoically paid attention to the services and sermons.

The couple home school there children, which is very key, to what happened there and what was allowed to happen, nobody had access to the children, nobody knew what was going on, and therefore, nobody could intervene in time, to stop the incest, until the mother discovered it, and confronted the father, first after throwing him out of the house and telling the daughter, she would rather die than let any molest or sexually abuse this young girl.  The girl, who had long been under the control and abuse of the father, while not her own father, was the only father she knew, and she wanted to keep the family together, and let the father back in the home.  Side note, from my mother a former junior high school teacher, often men, will actually marry a woman, to have control, access and power over a daughter of the alleged lover and wife, and that is by design!  That is one reason, with my children, I didn't not get remarried, for 13 years after i got divorced, I would date, but marriage was out of the question, while my daughters, both beautiful, were still in the home!

So, once the oldest daughter lets the father back in the home, through a window, and through the same type manipulation, scriptural references, and years of control, talks the daughter, into coming back to solve the problems in the family.  When the mother hears that the father is back in the home, she knocks on the door and starts screaming for him to get out of the house . . . dad, of course who is stronger than mother, orders all the kids into a bedroom and tells them to shut the door!  He then grabs to mother, the kids, listening at the door, hear, bumps, yelling, screams, things being thrown, a thud or two, and finally, the baby starts to cry, so the older sister, goes to grab the baby, and sees her mother, on the floor, grasping for breath, while her father is choking her, and has his foot on her face!  The girl grabs the baby and leaves.  Later the room goes silent!  The father told the family the next morning that their mother had abandoned the family and was not coming back.  The oldest daughter was inducted by the father to help dispose of the body.  He later, answered parishioners, questions about his wife's disappearance, by telling them that she went to Georgia where she was from, to deliver their baby.  The kids were confused.

How Could a Mother's Body Remain Buried in a Freezer in the Basement

Once the daughter, got pregnant by her step-father, and she went to a neighbor, going to run away, the good Samaritan neighbor insisted she go to another preacher, and tell him what was going, he refused to listen, because he knew the allegedly good man and preacher, and refused to have anything to do with the girl, actually accusing her of lying about his friend and fellow preacher . . . a bit touchy, maybe too close to home! I remember when my own father was a Mormon bishop and he was interviewing a member of his ward, or geographical membership he was over, he was shocked, when the daughter, who was being interviewed to get married and go through the temple, said . . . Does this mean I don't have to have sex with my father any more?  My father about fell off his chair, and comforted the girl, but I doubt he told her to go to authorities, as he should have, when there is this type of abuse and especially, when the man is in a leadership position in the church, and that can having damning consequences for the church itself, as we all know, what cover ups have done to many churches, not just the little chapel priests, but worldwide churches, with men running them, there is always room for perversions and deviancy!

Finally, this wonderful neighbor, took the girl to police authorities, who were alarmed and started to look into the allegations, which later, went from the second oldest daughter denying the claims, to the eldest daughter, to prove she was telling the truth, revealing that the mother's body was in a freezer in the family home basement.  The seasoned detectives, didn't believe it, but decided to check it out, and were shocked as hell, this had been at least three or four years after the disappearance of the wife, with nobody ever questioning the husband and father!  The sorted details of the families, life unfolded, a father, who ran his family like a boot camp, organized, orderly, controlled, with the kids, having to hold push up positions, for failing to do their home schooling right.  When the preacher, was about to be apprehended, for his crimes and arrested, the cops, went to arrest him at his home and found he was gone, but they were shocked at the very clean, orderly, almost sterile condition of the children's rooms, all their shoes, lined up, no toys, and complete perfection in the condition of the home.  Oh, attorneys and psychologists, told the cops, who were just shocked at the time the daughter didn't report the crime and where her mother's body was . . . is because over the years, abused children, wives, or husbands, are manipulated, twisted, and threatened, to do what the abuser wants, and the young woman, already vulnerable, wanted to protect her family, her sisters and brother, keeping the family in tact.

Church Congregations Cheers When Preacher is Arrested!

Once the cops got an arrest warrant and knew where the preacher and his children were, they went to the church, positioned cops, everywhere so the guy could not get away, nor get into a hostage situation, with the children, and when all was set, the lead cop, walked right up to the pulpit, and arrested the perverted preacher, and to the shock and surprise, of all the cops, watching, the congregation, started cheering and clapping for the cops, and seemed really relieved that the preacher was being arrested.  I am sure, but that time, rumors had been circling the local circuit he preached at, and normal people don't dig this kind of shit!  And that was comfort to the cops, who were just doing their job and didn't dare risk, letting the man out of their sight, for fear, that he might escape or hurt his kids.  I think that is a sign, that even though, these alleged secret combinations, hidden crimes, have been buried for years, through, what I call, the scientific theory of Einstein's Theory on Quantum Physics, people, through unseen connectors, while not being able to put their hands on what is really wrong, they just feel at a gut level something is wrong.

I believe this is the case, with a cheating spouse, domestic violence, child abuse, sexual abuse, people can sense, that something is amiss, and they will stand back and look, often almost guessing, what the problems are, regardless of having the facts and evidence to support any allegations or suspicions . . . we, just as human beings, especially family members, friends, coworkers church members, or anywhere a close or connected relationship exists, and even when it does not, but a crowd cheering a super bowl team or world series in baseball, can actually feel the energy of crowds that are not present in the stadiums!  But, I guess you could look at it like this, think back on a time, when you have not talked to someone for some time and you think of that person, and then that person calls you out of the blue!  Or you call them and they say, I was just thinking of you.  That energy is picked up at a subconscious level and felt by the other person.  So, in the case of the sins of the fathers will be on the heads of the children, whether your children, actually know of your sins, they can feel them and the effects of them, will show up, regardless of knowledge!  So, crime, sin, lies, deception and whatever, really never works, because, eventually the evidence of secret thoughts and actions will become readily apparent, either through the acts of the child, or be manifest in the family system.

The Truth Shall Make You Free . . . Scripture!

These scripture when taken on face value, are great, work, and can guide us through life, and we don't need a preacher, bishop, even pope to tell us what that scripture means, when the plain language tells us, exactly what God means, without man's interpretation, perversions, and self interests, being added to those words of wisdom.  But, I have found, that there is power, freeing power, in truth, regardless of how painful that truth is, it is better revealed, and the issues dealt with, because the issues will fester, canecur and corrupt a family, church, neighborhood, corporation, government office, and eventually come to light, one way or another, so, bring it out, early and deal with it.  I just saw a funny, whatever, on the computer or on TV, where some neighbors had issues, for about 12 years, with one neighbor cutting corners with his big machines across another neighbors yard.  The neighbor, who was having tracks from this guy across his lawn, put up fence after fence, to stop the trespassing.  And finally, the neighbor, who maybe had access, to the property, prior to the new neighbor, who had retired and moved to that location, finally got in his bulldozer and started taking down the fence, continued to the neighbor's house, and took out, I believe three houses, smashed a truck, and took out anything in his path.

One neighbor watched, and just made jokes about it, but could not believe it was happening, but apparently, neighbors who knew the guy, who sounded like a character, no nonsense type guy, and a bit eccentric, and not someone you messed with, had just hand it!  The cops were called and just could not believe their eyes, but people actually seemed quite amused by the act, and the frustration, after 12 years of fighting, and so it was over, the guy, got fined, of course, and the others just kind of took it in stride.  LOL!  This escalating battle, had finally just broken into open war, and then it was open.  I think that is the way, the truth can make you free, just cut off the arm and let people bleed sometimes, rather than a festering cold war, that goes on and harms for years, just do it!  Let the consequences fall where they will.  Life is complicated, choices are not always easy, and we were never promised a rose garden; therefore, we need to all do the best we can, but, I have found, that honesty, is always, the fucking best way, the right way, and also the easier way!

The good news was, the young girl and her sisters and brother, later her own baby, were getting along just fine and living happy and productive lives . . . the power of truth, the power of freedom from lies!

It is very damaging to hide under cloaks, robes, callings, labels, authority, and carry out bad things, under the guise of others not knowing . . . one way or another, you and yours will pay!

HONESTY IS ALWAYS THE BEST POLICY . . . NONE OF US ARE BRILLIANT ENOUGH TO PULL OF A LIE!

Truth is Truth . . . Live IT!

SMILE and HAVE A GREAT HONEST DAY!